Supervisory Expectations

"It is our responsibilities, not ourselves, that we should take seriously." - Peter Ustinov

     One of the larger adjustments I have had to make during training for my new assistantship is becoming a supervisor and learning the responsibilities that role entails. I've never truly been "in charge" or anyone. Yes, I've been in a position to tell people what to do, and long ago when I was an assistant instructor for karate classes there was no question of "who's in charge?" But I've never held the complete responsibility of supervising another person in their professional tasks - it has always been much more of an advisory role.

     I remember thinking very specifically about the differences between advising and supervising before my interview weekend, and it was an exercise our leadership development coordinator had us do during training as well. One of my colleagues used an analogy that stuck with me: advising is guiding someone, whereas supervising is steering them. In some situations, you do not have to follow a guide. Sure, it is usually in your best interest, but the most they can do is show you the path, and it is up to you to take it. If someone is steering the jeep down the path, though, the only way for you to not go down the path is to jump out.

    What interests me about this adjustment is not that part of the analogy, though. I am honestly fine with my small staff of RAs being required to take the path I choose, or else "jumping out." It is my being required to choose the paths that has been the largest adjustment. In my advising roles in the past much has been chosen or set for me, while in this new supervisory role I am responsible for setting list after list of requirements and expectations for my staff. I have set "Staff Expectations," "Training Expectations," "Duty Expectations," and so on, and every time I have finished a list there has been this foreboding feeling of having sealed someone's fate for the next academic year. 

    To get past that feeling I remind myself that this experience is all part of my journey of professional development, and so I take the supervisory responsibilities that much more seriously. I double- and triple-check those expectations, invite questions and comments on them, and envision how conversations concerning them will go. And - much more importantly than my own growth - I always consider my staff's professional growth and how my expectations will steer them on their paths. Because only guiding them would not be taking the full responsibility entrusted to me as their supervisor.

Quote Citation: BBC News. (2004, March 12). Ustinov's comic touch. Retrieved from http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/entertainment/3578959.stm

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New Campus, New Connections

"Seek first to understand, then to be understood." (Covey, 2004)

Hi. My name is Mike. I am a graduate student pursuing an MA in Higher Education and a graduate assistant in my campus’s housing office. I have a wonderful and supportive wife who lives in the residence hall with me. I enjoy reading, listening to music, sudoku, and watching TV online. And if you catch me with a camera in my hand, I am attempting a photography hobby that may one day start another blog. For now, though, let me tell you about Campus Connections.

When I first came to this new campus, I had told myself I would start a blog, without much direction in mind. I just knew that I wanted to share my experiences in a new place with people back home and from my undergraduate institution - people who would read this just to keep up with my life. Then it evolved in my head into something more “professional" - a way to share my experiences in the field of higher education and muse about ways to advance the field and better my own practice.

When I sat down to write this first post, though, it became a sort of compromise between the two. I want these posts to act on both a personal and a professional level. This blog will be a venue for my experiences to interact with each other, be they in the classroom, office, residence hall, athletic stadium, or the spaces outside of the campus cornerstones. More importantly, though, it will be a venue for my holistic experience to interact with the outside world, and I invite you to participate in that.

Basically, it is here that I will seek to understand what I am learning on campus, from all of these wonderful and new connections I am already making.

P.S. Oh, and I also will probably include a quote each time I post. The one above was in my supervisor’s expectations of our staff, and it was probably the most important lesson that I could be given about empathic listening and teamwork.

Quote Citation:
Cover, Steven R. (2004). The 7 habits of highly effective people: Powerful lessons in personal change. New York: Free Press.